Right here goes nothing, I don’t really know where to start but let’s start from somewhere.
Today, I present to you, the 56 days wait? But ohh what could this be you ask? *inserts snapchat thinking emoji* It’s funny, because this isn’t an actual post per say more a note I’ve penned, well *typed to you all detailing my latest absence.
Now, I’m sure some of you opened this post thinking it was one of those celibacy/abstinence posts on waiting to give your beloved the cookie? (Desperately hoping you all know this ‘cookie’ I’m referring to, not quite there to be a relationship/sex blogger and be graphic and all that). Anyways this isn’t a new reformed scheme to keep your partner waiting to take that relationship to the next level, it’s not a rendition on the 90 days rule from ‘Think like a man’ neither is it a plan to get that summer body, all for a cheeky bit of summer lovin’ 😉 yeah it’s not any of that, unfortunately.
Fortunately enough for you lovely people, it’s more of an apology for my latest hiatus? I think that’s what they call it? Now, if you’ve been following my blog since back in the day, 2013 or so, you’ll know I always have one of these spells, where I ‘ghost’ or I’m ‘away with the fairies’ and I can tell you, despite growing and maturing these episodes still exist. But today I don’t bring you my list of excuses, explaining how I had exams, or I’ve been unwell, or been caught up with this or that, instead I bring to you the opposite, a list of my plans, projects but also a key lesson.
Yeah, university is over, no more lectures so why am I giving lessons still? What are these lessons even about? Lol, the funny thing is, whilst lying in bed, listening to the sounds of traffic from my window, Made in Chelsea screen paused in front of me, I actually don’t know. I have no answers to your questions, I’m just writing as I usually do and hoping to land somewhere with this all. The 56 day wait was a random epiphany I had. Just scrolling through my word press app and realising it had been 55 days since my last post, and probably 56 days by the time I posted this and I was like WOW! Time really does wait for nobody….
You see, in this period yes, I was able to complete my first year exams, go to a couple of parties, engage in church activities, make several trips back home, see family etc. But I was also able to evaluate certain things in my life e.g. My blog and actually pen down ways to improve it, potential ideas, exciting projects etc. I was also able to go through my diary and see if some goals I had set for the year had been achieved. Now, the 56 day wait wasn’t something I intended to undergo, however it was something that I clearly needed. Something to re-fuel me and strike up my mind to make some changes and improvements. Now your wait may be a couple of days, weeks, months or even at one point before relaunching my blog a year.
The length of your wait doesn’t matter, however make it count. Make the results of your abscence something worth waiting for.
And with that, I sign off guys! I’m still here, and don’t you worry, you’ll be seeing and hearing a lot from me in the coming weeks. Thank you all for your continuous support.